We need an option to not join games in progress!

I hate it. I wan’t to play multiplayer and more times then not, I get put into a already going match. I absolutely hate it! I lose all my senses on what’s going on and what to do. I can’t just play from the middle of a match. I can’t be the only one who hates this! And it seems I am ALWAYS put on the losing team. Most likely because the kid I took over for ragequit. Please add some sort of option to opt-out of in progress games 343.