Unable to play matchmaking

When I try to join a multiplayer game I get a message saying connecting to matchmaking server, please wait. After researching
online I figured it was because my game wasn’t updated or something. Tried forcing an update through steam to no fix, tried uninstalling and reinstalling the game to no fix. Could it be that I was banned for some reason? When I play social games sometimes I afk for 30 seconds to grab my newborn when he’s going nuts but I don’t think that’s relevant. Other than that I don’t talk in games other than the occasional hey or GG. I can still connect to friends and play campaign missions as well.

Any insight would be appreciated.

mine searches forever last night I queued for 3 hours and i didnt get idle kicked either. there are some bad people

Have you tried reinstalling?