I love to dig into gameplay mechanics – and I love to discuss different perspectives, aspects and perceptions.
But let’s face it: After months and months of beating that dead horse Sprint discussions have become stagnant.
Most of the time it’s not about the exchange of perceptions, not about developing a more well-balanced understanding anymore – it’s about forcing one’s opinion and standards on others.
It’s about a stupid trench warfare in which every party thinks that they’re better than the ‘others’ (the COD-kids, those who live in the past,…) in every way imaginable.
It looks like an exchange on the surface level but in fact it’s just the same game of ‘I say A – you say B’ over and over again. If I see some user names I can already predict the response with 100% certainty.
And that of course is a phenomenon on both ‘sides’.
If anything the discussions showed me that it’s incredibly easy to dismiss and to devalue arguments of others.
So I’ve asked myself: Why do we spend so much of our time and energy in this board if we’re not willing to actually listen and learn?
At the end of the road there is no winner, no party will win that absurd ‘battle’ as Sprint is neither good nor bad. Both sides presented valid argument and perspectives – it’s up to everyone to decide for themselves what weighs more for them (and that’s totally subjective).
Having an opinion, having a preference is perfectly fine – outright opposition or absolute refusal is a sign that you should take a deep breath step back and think about your position and your motivations again.
We all love Halo. We want the best for this series. That’s why we fight for our beliefs, that’s why we spend countless hours writing messages in this board.
But I firmly believe that we’re losing all, that we actually hurt this franchise if we don’t stop fighting each other. In the end what we produce is not a better future for our game, what we produce is a climate of hostility.
I’m not better than others. I’m guilty of that stubbornness too. But I have actual respect for every single fan that supports this franchise in a mature way. And I had some wonderful discussions with people who were actually open-minded even if we agreed to disagree in the end.
But I won’t participate in Sprint discussion threads anymore unless I think I’ve got an aspect in mind that hasn’t been talked to death yet, something that really adds to the discussion. And I won’t react to people that didn’t move a millimeter in the past months.
Fellow Halo fans: Why can’t we work together to draw attention to problems that we all can stand behind (e.g. how long it took 343i to update playlists in the past)?
Why can’t we work together to find and support sensible and realistic solutions that help everyone (petition for a ‘classic playlist’ in H5 – not removing new features altogether)?