i made a map that i want to show my friends but i’m silver is there some way i cant get the map to them without renewing gold membership?
Save it to a portable hard drive and take it to them
i mean like xboxlive friends i don’t really want to go 100+ miles
If silver doesnt have a file share then no.
All you can do is get your nearest friend to upload it for you or get live for a month to upload…sorry 
put it in a flash drive, upload it onto a filesharing site such as mediafire and or megaupload, i wont give you the process but a quick google will give you tutorials. Thats the only way to do it with silver.
If you have a friend come over and either bring or recover their gold account and upload it to their fileshare, you can go on their fileshare on Bungie.net and copy it to yours.
i think 2 day gold trials give you file share, grab one of them and upload it