Question About Preordering and Downloading

I’m unsure of which version of the game I want to preorder. I want to play as soon as possible and I could preload the game but with my slower connection that will take a long time. My other option is to get it delivered the day of by Amazon but I’m scared that the day one download will be too big and I won’t be able to play for a long time. If anyone could help me choose, I would greatly appreciate it.

The game is 55GB TOTAL AFTER 9GB UPDATE. If you want to play as soon as possible than get the digital and download it a week before release. You will also be able to download the update BEFORE release as well. This will ensure you can play at midnight of release.