I do not want to join session in progress!

When ever i play halo 4 alone i join i a late game, in a loosing team, with a huge diffrence the enemy having full mapcontrol, and you loose after that game everyone leaves and you join in a new game in the same situation, this is not always the case but it happends alot. this is realy unfair, there should be an option that you can turn of joining session in progress,