Every game today I’ve joined someone elses game and its making me want to scream, I want to play a game from the start, but it just wont let me.
You can probably ask for a game invite, if you’re friends. Works pretty well.
It’s all luck buddy. All luck. Also the term is JIP(Join in Progress) because the other people in the game can’t own game’s servers.
Set your search preferences to balanced. Additionally, if possible, try playing with at least one other person as it will drastically reduce JIP.