High ping all the time

There’s an option in the settings to be able to see your connectity and latecy issues. You can see it in the top right corner showing a number.
At most games I’m getting 86sm with my best games it’s 25sm. Can we please have the option to pick what severs we want to be connected too please 343. I’m so tired of being shot around walls, rubber banding, reloading my weapon over and over, lag oh gawd the lag and just the stuttering is terrible. The MCC had this available in the settings please have it for halo infinite. Also I want the option to turn off crossplay and not be punished with longer search times.