Simple. Remove forced crossplay, default everyone back to platform like how the best days were back then, and THEN add toggle feature option to turn on crossplay!
If the person has crossplay toggle option thats an easy option to turn on/off at main menu, when they’re done playing the game, it should automatically turn back off until player wants to turn back on when back on.
The more you prioritize $ over the gamers by forcing xbox players to chopshops with PC hoping you’d make money off PC players buying skin from thrill of wrecking xbox players, the more it’s going to hurt 343 & the gamers experience that been crap ever since crossplay snuck in & hidden in settings then blocking the option.
Just saying👍
No need to get stupid & greedy, ignoring this 1 huge main problem that’s never going to be fixed until you do the above 
it’s so stupid to expect servers to handle multiple band frequencies, hardwares, platforms, & regions! Jesus…
P.S. Think about all the money you could of made if it wasn’t forced in first place causing serious problems & everyone enjoying the game ending up buying! This almost feels like oil company that doesnt care about consumers & the damages, just keeps going & making it worse lmao