Failed to load

So ever since the release I have been trying to play multiplayer matchmaking (social, competitive, customs). But it always results in the game “ending.” What I mean is that once the lobby finds their players, then I start to load in. After a few minutes of loading in I get disconnected with the scoreboard showing and with the audio “Game over.” playing. At first I thought everyone had left except me but turns out that was not the case when I played with my friend. When I tried with my friend it gave me the same result. I asked him if the game had ended but he said no that the game was still going on and that I quit the game. And this is a total let down for me because I also receive a ban for quitting during a match when it’s not my fault. It’s not a connection issue as I can join matches in other games. But I have an idea of what it could be.

When me and my friend were doing co-op together and he loads in first he sees my model there but I’m still loading. I’m pretty sure the Idle kicking system just kicks me from the game because it thinks I’m AFK when I’m not cause I’m still loading. I’m curious if this happens to anyone else and if they can describe their experience and give feedback.

Edit: I only got to actually play 2 matches out of 12.