Can a monitor address this for me?

Monitors,

I can’t reconcile the fact that 1) you make it a rule that the forum cannot be used to publicly discuss or communicate with monitors and instruct members to message monitors privately with 2) my messages to a monitor that is clearly active on the forum going unanswered.

I didn’t use any profanities, did not belittle anyone, and was genuinely looking to have a cordial conversation with a monitor and have received no response.