booted while searching for new host

I keep getting booted from most of my games because mid-game, a new host has to be found. I heard somewhere that this happens to everyone an if the game can’t find a host everyone is kicked from the lobby. but this isn’t the case because the game resumed without me. I don’t know if that means I’m the host being kicked, but either way the game keeps banning me because of this and it’s getting exceedingly irritating.

Does anyone know how I can prevent this from happening? because I only see this getting worse from here with me getting banned every time I “leave the game”